The Prodigal Son Part 2

A spared child...

Luke 15:25-32  “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’ The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ ‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

In part one, I explained how I've really felt badly for this Older Son for quite a while.  But The Lord began to show me more of the story - the forgotten blessings of being the good son.

This Older Son had been so angered by the return of his brother, so upset for himself, that he forgot how good his life has been.  His father tells him "Everything I have is yours."  The son is already enjoying the blessings of his relationship with his father.  He has always provided for- every need of food, clothing, shelter, and a job.  He has never been ostracized from family or lost his station in society.  He has never walked the road of needing delivered from squander, homelessness, filth, or addiction.  In doing everything he was supposed to, he lived the life he desired.  He may not have left home and experienced a different life, but he did get the life he chose - he chose not to leave home when his brother chose to leave home.

So why did he think he needed recognition for doing the right thing?
Why did he think he deserved a party for taking care of his responsibilities?

Because he isn't thinking about what he has.  He's thinking about what he doesn't have.  He didn't have the excitement and good times his brother had.  He's missed out on so much!  He's forgetting that in missing out on his brother's escapades, he's also missed out on his brother's heartache.

And now I can see that he ABSOLUTELY mattered to his father!  His father kept him in the home, working with him daily, enjoying a relationship with him despite his brother's absence.  Large parties and celebrations didn't happen because every day was a joy to the father who had one of his son's home.  And in being home, the Older Son had many, many more moments and memories with his father than his brother, who missed out on them by being gone.  What is truly sad is that in all his thinking of being the "good son," what became evident was his evil heart.  He couldn't even be happy that his brother was home, safe and reconciled.  Because I have identified with the Older Son, that has also been my heart:  evil and jealous, unable to find joy for someone else in their repentance and blessing because I was so focused on how I was being left out and being "good."

The beauty of the story of the Prodigal Son is that of the wayward son who realized his mistakes and, in humility, came home to reconcile with a father who ran to greet him with open arms.  It is a picture Jesus wanted to instill in us as the picture of our Heavenly Father when one of His children comes running to Him for forgiveness.  The hidden beauty of the story of the Prodigal Son is that of the compliant son who shows us his hurting heart at his perceived injustice of the situation.  By looking deeper, we can see that while he is hurt, he is also wrong.  He has been blessed and rewarded many, many times over.

I can imagine the conversation between the two brothers:

Older:  It's so unfair that you got a celebration for doing everything wrong when I've been here, having no fun, and doing everything right.  How lucky are you!

Younger:  If you think my life away was fun, let me tell you about starvation. And having no bath.  And living with the pigs.  If I could, I would trade all that time back for a chance to stay here and work in the field.  You were the lucky one.

It is in this same way that God our Father blesses us when we are faithful.  We are spared the tragedy of separation from Him when we are living obedient lives.  We are kept close in relationship with Him when we choose to follow His Son.  We do not get the heavenly choir of approval singing over us every day, but we do have a life full of joy and peace and guidance because we have a Father who knows we are where we belong.  We may miss some of the "fun" of the world, but we are also missing the consequences of that fun.  And we may be living to a standard that isn't always easy or enjoyable, but we are living a life we chose - a life with Christ.

In my years of feeling sorry for and identifying with the Older Son, I missed the blessing of being where I am and what I've been spared.  I do not have a dramatic salvation story or a life of hardship turned 180 upon giving my life over to Jesus.  But I also do not bear the scars of such hard living.  I instead have the sweet treasures and memories of my Father's attention and affection.  I have the evidence of His love in my daily life as He has led me and guided me and preserved me.  I have the security of knowing that all my needs are met, as are many desires.  I have learned that while it can be frustrating to do the right thing and not be celebrated for it, it is better than the alternative of living a hard life because the need for attention is greater than the love being offered.

I am so thankful to be the Older Son, or daughter in my case.  I am so thankful that I have not had to learn the hard lessons of running from my true calling as a child of God.  But the truth is, we are all Prodigal Sons and Daughters.  We have all been without God at some point in our lives.  For every one of us, there was a time before we decided to believe in and trust in Jesus as our Savior.  There was a moment in which we were the Prodigal Son running for the Father's arms as He ran toward us, joyful that we had come to Him.

For some, you are still living without the Father by refusing Jesus as your Savior.  The Father still waits, looking in the distance to see a figure running for His arms, crying out for forgiveness.  So we can all identify with the Prodigal Son:  doing our own thing, realizing it's not working, and returning to the One who has loved us all along. 

Don't stay away one second more!  The Father is waiting.  He will celebrate your arrival.  And this time, all of His sons and daughters will celebrate with Him.

"Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent." Luke 15:4-7

The Prodigal Son Part 1

A compliant child...

Luke 15:11-32  Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything. When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate. Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’ The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ ‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

Over the years, every time I read this passage, I feel sorry for the older brother. I'm sure I can't be the only one out there that's thought he got forgotten along the way in this story.  I've given it a lot of thought over the years. In fact, it's bothered me quite a bit.  I've heard enough sermons to understand the point Jesus was making - there is rejoicing in the Kingdom when a wayward child comes to the Father.

But what about the child who didn't stray?  What about the child who didn't squander?  The child who was loyal and steadfast and obedient?  What about that person???  Many of us have been able to identify with him more than the wayward son.  We aren't rebellious or demanding.  We are cooperative and obedient.  We are helpful and reliable and appropriate.  We would never imagine doing the things the Prodigal Son represents.

So here are my thoughts from the perspective of the Older son:
*He stayed to help the family
*He was a good steward of what he had
*He was trustworthy with others' things (money, items)
*He was responsible and did what he was told to do
*He was faithful and loyal
*No one ever had to worry about the choices he was making
*No one ever had to bail him out of poor choices

It was clearly not fair that the one who screwed up was celebrated.
The Older Son was treated as if it was expected that he would never behave the way the Prodigal Son had, but when the brother acted out, he got a party?!?

These are the thoughts that have run through my head over the years.  I wonder if the Older Son ever felt like "what's the point?"  After he sees the celebration of his screw up brother, I'd think he'd want a chance to go out and enjoy life a bit too.  Especially if it didn't appear to have any negative consequences.  Here he had done everything right, everything expected of him, and it never even mattered in the eyes of his father.

At first glance, there seems to be some very well deserved righteous anger going on here.  This poor guy has worked and worked, remained at home, making a life on his father's land, helping the family, all while the brother got out of his own responsibilities and "sowed his wild oats."  And the rejection!  This good son is still working in the field while everyone else is celebrating.  They never even came out to get him!  He had to walk up and find the party in full swing, ask about the commotion, learn of his brother being the guest of honor, and no one even thought to invite him!  What a big thank you and slap in the face!

Yes, I have had a few problems with this story in my life.  Often because I have felt just this way.  I've done the right thing (or tried to do more right than actual defiance).  I've worked more than I've played.  I've stayed when I've wanted to leave.  And I've watched others run amok, ignore the rules, be selfish, hurt others, all in the name of themselves and their fun; and then watch those same people come back with their tail between their legs, asking for help out of the mess they created, expecting and getting!!! a full pardon from the ones they abandoned on their journey of 'self discovery.'  Let me tell you, it is not enjoyable being the Older Son.

But as The Lord has matured me and my thinking, as He has guided my studies and my healed my hurts, He has shown me that there is more to this story.  For instance, there's jealousy.  The Older Son worked hard and now he's upset that the Prodigal Son got to have all the fun AND was welcomed home as a hero.  That didn't go over well.  And how about pride?  Here's a guy who thought that he was sooo much better because he'd never screwed up like his brother had.  Again, not very pretty.  And as much as I'd like to say that his anger was truly righteous, I'm afraid it wasn't.  He wasn't angry because something wrong had been done - he was angry because something wrong had been made right. 

Think about that for a moment.

And then join me for Part Two of The Prodigal Son.

Is God Too Big...

...to come near?

Do you ever sit and ponder the greatness of God?  I don't mean the holiness or how great His mercy is (although those are also worth pondering).  I mean His literally GREATNESS - His size, His abilities, His awesome, wondrous, imagination and creativity.  His greatness is almost incomprehensible at times.

There is a video by Louis Giglio called "How Great is Our God."  Part 1 is here and I'd like you to go watch it before reading any further.

No, seriously, go watch it.  It's ten minutes.  But it will be the best ten minutes you spend today.

I'll wait.







If you didn't watch it, you're not going to appreciate this next part.  I really hope you watched it.

Our Milky Way Galaxy

So at what point was your mind blown?  The longer he talked, and the more comparisons he made, the smaller I felt.  Like really small.  So small to the point of not mattering.  I know I've had the prayers that aren't as significant or life changing as others' needs or prayers.  I've felt that my problems are so much less problematic than others' problems.  But this video just sort of added to that feeling of...."I am so unimportant in the big, giant, universal, multi-galaxy big picture."

Did you feel like that too?  Just a little?

That we believe in and pray to a God who is so mighty and powerful that He's created all this stuff - the stuff we see like animals and trees and other people and the skies and the oceans - but He's also created all this stuff we can't see - like the planets and nebulae and other galaxies that are so majestic, so beautiful, so unique, that I just feel inferior when I think of little 'ole me.

Thousands of documented galaxies

I mean, I think about the biggest thing we have on Earth is probably the ocean.  The ocean is massive.  So big that scientists don't think we've discovered all the creatures in it yet.  That's pretty big.  And when I look out at it and it has seemingly no end, that's big.  When out on a ship, in the middle of that ocean, with nothing but water on every horizon and nothing but water for miles - MILES - below you, that is scary big.  And that's not the biggest thing out in the great expanse of creation.  It's nothing compared to other planets and galaxies.  And I am nothing compared to that massive ocean.  Are you seeing my teeny tiny self-image here?

And yet....

God chose to come close to us.

Helix Nebula aka "Eye of God" Nebula

This great, big, Creator God of the Universe chose to make Earth His footstool (Isaiah 66:1).  Think about that:  a footstool is a resting place for one's feet.  It has to be in close proximity of the person's seat.  And when that person gets up, they remove their feet from the foot stool and then lean forward, placing them in a perfect position to observe the footstool from a closer perspective.

Scripture tells us that God desired a closer perspective of Earth from its very creation.  In the Garden of Eden, God walked with Adam and Eve (Genesis 3:8).  He appeared as a burning bush to Moses on Mount Sinai (Exodus 3:2).  In the desert, God appeared to the Israelites as a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night (Exodus 13:21).  He then appeared to Moses again on Mount Sinai when He gave Moses the Ten Commandments (Exodus 33:18-23).

"Hand of God" Nebula

The full verse of Isaiah 66:1 says, "Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool. Where is the house you will build for me? Where will my resting place be?"  This tells us that God not only wanted a closer look, He in fact wanted to dwell here.  Here - on this tiny planet in the middle of space surrounded by a whole lot more stuff.  Exodus 25 gives the guidelines for the Tabernacle which the Israelites would build.  God promises that He will be in their presence in the ark of the covenant they were to build.  Later God gives instructions for the Temple to be built (1 Kings 6).  It was called The House of God and The Lord promised "I will live among the Israelites" (verse 13).  A house is a pretty permanent dwelling.

"Hand of God" Nebula, different angle

Still later, God came forward to the world in an even greater way - through His Son, Jesus the Messiah.  Jesus, Yeshua, was named Immanuel, which means "God with us" (Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:23).  God, creator of the vast universe, came so close as to walk among mankind in the form of a man.  One hundred percent God and one hundred percent man, just so He could live, walk, teach, love, die, and rise again in the flesh.

And if that wasn't enough, He then sent His Holy Spirit (John 14:26, Acts 2) to forever indwell in every person who would believe on Jesus and accept the free gift of salvation from their sins.  Now, instead of being contained in one location, in an ark or temple, in one Man, God is present in the lives of every believer - every moment of every day, forever.  Here - on this tiny planet, among so many other places in the universe.

This great, big, giant, amazing, Creator God who has made so much that I feel inferior by comparison has instead decided that I am so special, so important, so loved, that He wants to come close and be a part of my life - in every facet, every decision, every moment of every day.  That is simply astonishing.

Cross found at center of Whirlpool Galaxy

Now when I think about how big God is, I think of Him as being far off for a purpose:  far away enough that He can look at the universe He created and enjoy it.  As if looking out upon all these things gives Him joy.  Like a window looking out at a scenic view; just as we enjoy looking out at creation and sit in wonder of the vastness and beauty all around us, so He must enjoy looking at all the splendor He can see from His vantage point. 

And I marvel that a God so big as to create all that I see and so very much more that I can't see, would care enough to come near to us who are so small by comparison.  I am shocked at His attention to our tiny spot in the great big picture of space.  I am humbled by His desire to care about the things that are troubling us.  I am thrilled at His longing to be a part of our lives.  I am so thankful for His plan to make us so much more important than all the other things He has created. 

He is too big to consider any other alternative except coming near to us.

And that is the most amazing thing of all.

UPDATE:  On January 20, 2015, this video was released to show a very small glimpse into our nearest spiral galaxy, Andromeda.  It is mind blowing to imagine that there is all of this out there - and still our Creator God chose to come close to US!  Each one of us!  If you don't feel special yet, I hope seeing this will get you there.

When I view and consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, 

the moon and the stars, which You have ordained and established,  

What is man that You are mindful of him, 

and the son of man that You care for him? Psalm 8:3-4